Spring Preparation #6: Make a Commitment
The kind of commitment that I’m talking about is also sometimes referred to as “put your money where your mouth is.” You know that you want to make a commitment to developing your yoga practice, your meditation practice or both. Maybe you’ve been meaning to try yoga for a while. Perhaps, after the 15th article you’ve read this month about the benefits of meditation you feel almost obligated to give it a try. Maybe you’ve let your mat get dusty this winter or it might even be frozen in your trunk?
Whether you’ve never done yoga or meditated before or you’ve been a yogi at heart for forever, this season of renewal reminds us of the value of commitment. Registering for an 8-week small group series with Sharon for this spring is an excellent way to ease yourself back on your mat or cushion or find out what all the buzz is about for yourself for the very first time.
Here are just some of the benefits to committing to a private small-group class over dropping-in on large studio classes:
- You have the opportunity to develop a relationship with your teacher and your fellow students. You know that this small group will notice your absence and you will miss seeing them too and these relationships help you get to class when you aren’t quite feeling up to it.
- You write the dates and times on your calendar and then you make it happen. If you have to arrange a babysitter, then you do it. If you have to figure out what bus you are going to take, you find that schedule. When it is on your calendar, then you do it. Making a class a habit is an excellent way to make sure that you actually attend.
- In a small group you get the attention and support you need to learn new skills. With an 8-week series, the material can be presented in a consecutive way. The instructor can get to know you and your special abilities and is prepared to modify your practice just for you. No more hiding in the back of the room just hoping you don’t hurt yourself!
- Let’s be honest. You spent the money and now you are going to show up.
- When you make a commitment, a whole new realm of opportunities will open up for you. Whenever you make a commitment, it means saying “no” to other things or people. But, it also means that a completely new set of possibilities will be revealed to you.
Stop talking about doing yoga or learning how to meditate and SIGN-UP. See you in April!
This post was written by Sharon Rudyk, an independent yoga and meditation instructor in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. Read more about Sharon on her website.
Holiday Weekend Home Practice
One of the main foundational texts on the Buddha’s teachings on meditation, written by Upatissa in the first century after Christ, is called The Path of Freedom (Vimuttimagga). It is interesting to me that a path that requires dedication and practice, things that we tend to see as un-liberating, would be seen as producing a sense of freedom. In addition, this work that we do in yoga and meditation helps us to promote compassion for all living beings. In our American culture, there is significant value placed on being “independent.” When I was in the last few weeks of my pregnancy with my son, I visited with my future child’s pediatrician and he gave me a little booklet put together by the pediatric practice on how to prepare to care for a newborn. This booklet informed me that it was of the utmost importance that I obtain a crib and that my newborn sleep by itself. The booklet did inform me that this was the safest way for baby to sleep, but it also made clear that it was important for the baby to sleep alone so that it would gain a sense of independence. What a strange way to talk about a little one that so very clearly relies on its caregivers for everything. We even try to make complete dependence look like independence in our culture.
So, in honor of this holiday of independence, I give you this short home-practice that fosters inter-dependence and helps us to find peace in our relationship to the earth and to one another. Peace and love to everyone in the extended Yoga Matrika community–ENJOY! This is designed to be a very simple and mindful practice that is appropriate for everyone, but please be careful and if you have any concerns about practicing yoga, wait and talk with a teacher first.
Step 1: Grounding, Establishing our Relationship to the Earth (Vertical Relationships)
Find a place outdoors to stand (if you need to, please feel free to practice sitting in a chair) in your bare feet (ideally) or indoors if weather or environment requires it. Stand in Mountain pose with your feet hip-width apart. Legs are strong, but relax a bit through the knees. Roll your sitting bones under you and lengthen through the sides of the body. Roll your shoulders back slightly and let them drop down away from your ears. Stretch the crown of your head towards the sky.
Bring your awareness to your feet. Notice the weight of your body pressing down on the earth through the soles of your feet. Then, shift so that you bring your awareness to the pressure that the earth is exerting up into the soles of your feet. As you inhale deeply, focus on the weight of your body connecting with the earth. As you exhale all the air out of the body and the energy rises out through the crown of the head, feel the energy of the earth rising up through your feet through the entire body.
You can do this for as long or as little as you like, but I recommend 3-5 minutes. At the end of your grounding meditation, do some gentle stretching. Inhaling, reach your arms over head and stretch—-come up onto your toes if balance isn’t a problem for you. Explore your relationship to the earth and sky. Inhale stretch and reach. Exhale and release the stretch.
Step 2: Relax the Spine and Explore the Horizontal Relationship to the Earth
Come down onto the ground on your hands and knees. As you inhale, open your heart, let your belly drop towards the earth and stretch your sitting bones back behind you (wise cow). As you exhale, round through the spine, spreading the shoulder blades and bringing your chin towards your chest (cat). Continue on in this movement for 6-8 repetitions of Cat/Cow. Inhaling and opening the heart and exhaling and rounding the spine.
After these repetitions, come into Child’s Pose and hold it for 2-3 minutes.
Step 3: Stretch the Hips and Groin in a Seated Pose (Cobbler’s Pose)
Sit here for at least one minute, but preferably 2-3 minutes. Breathe deeply into the body and feel the connection between your pelvis and the earth beneath you. As you exhale, feel the energy rise from the base of the spine up through the crown of your head. Feel open and confident.
Step 4: Explore the Back Body and the Legs with Head to Knee Pose
Relax through your shoulders, face, neck and jaw and just allow gravity to do the work. You should feel a nice stretch through the sides of the back and the leg, but do not strain to touch your toes. Actually, do not strain at all. Allow this stretch to be pleasurable and be curious about sensation in your body as you stretch and breathe.
Step 5: Happy Baby
Have fun! Wiggle your toes. Roll around and move and smile. There you go!
Step 7: Savasana
Do not skip this pose. Find a comfortable place to lie down and just be present for your thoughts, for your breath, for your feelings and body. Try not to judge and just BE for 5 to 10 minutes.
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Mountain Pose
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Bitilasana
Cow Pose
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Marjaryasana
Cat Pose
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Baddha Konasana
Bound Angle Pose
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Head-to-Knee Forward Bend
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Happy Baby Pose
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Savasana
Corpse Pose
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Intuitive Health: Yoga for your Spirit
Kari Samuels will be leading a series of workshops titled Intuitive Health at Yoga Matrika in October and November.
Intuitive Health: Balancing your Body, Mind and Spirit
We are all born with an intuitive awareness that guides us, protects us, and helps us make purposeful decisions. Through subtle messages from our body and our circumstances, our inner guidance communicates with us, leaading us towards our natural state of joy, vitality, and self-esteem. This fun, interactive class offers tools for transforming your life form the inside out. You will learn how to increase your positive energy, reclaim your power, and start living the prosperous healthy life you deserve.
October 21: Listening to your Body’s Wisdom
Every day you are receiving messages from your body that guide you towards your personal truth. In this workshop, you will learn now to listen to those subtle messages, so you can make empowering choices for your body and your life.
October 28: Mapping Your Inner Landscape
In this dynamic interactive class, you will explore your sacred architecture–the seven major energy centers of the body (chakras) and the human energy field, otherwise known as the aura. We will explore the many ways that your body reveals your personal blueprint, and ways you can create lasting change in your life through balancing your energy.
November 4: Positive Energy
Our outer world is a reflection of our internal reality. When we learn how to heal our fears and limitations, we can create more peaceful harmonious circumstances. This class offers practical techniques towards growth, healing and love. Practiced daily, these techniques will result in more joy, vitality, passion, and purpose.
November 11: The Energy of Relationships
We can attract and maintain healthy relationships when we understand the energy dynamics that transpire between ourselves and others. Through meditation and exercises, you will learn how to protect yourself against energy drains, create healthy boundaries, and live more compassionately towards yourself and others.
Register for workshops here: http://dharmatribeonline.com/matrika/index.php?tab=2
Find out more about Kari Samuels here: http://www.karisamuels.com/index.html
Posted by Sharon Fennimore Rudyk
Owner and Director of Yoga Matrika in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
http://www.yogamatrika.com/
Walking on Earth
There is a Chinese proverb that says that:
The miracle is not to fly in the air, or to walk on the water, but to walk on the earth.
This is the same with a yoga practice. Over time and with intelligent stretching practices, the body will open and become more flexible. With practice, beginning yoga students advance in their alignment and ability to do a greater variety of poses. It is truly beautiful to see an experienced yogi express the spirit of a pose with a deep and profound expression of grace. Advanced students create a flowing meditation through soft and easy breath and the control of balance and energy through bandha work and reflection on the philosophy and science of yoga.
While these are all beautiful reflections on the potential of yoga to create balance, ease and strength and grace, I see the miracle in the beginners. It starts with the honesty of effort and the realisation when new students see that even by drawing their awareness to the breath, without changing anything at all, everything changes. The miracle is not the perfect pose after years of training, the miracle is that moment that new students have when they realise that it is just being present in this moment that has the power to change the course of a life. The miracle is not a one-armed handstand, it is standing in tadasana–mountain pose—with weight balanced across the feet and the head, heart and gut one on top of the other.
The Miracle of Standing on Earth Practice:
Take your shoes and socks off and allow your feet to breathe and soften into the floor beneath you. Wiggle and spread your toes and feel the pressure of your feet on the earth and the earth on your feet. Evaluate the distribution of your body weight accross your feet and see if you can move in a way that allows you to equally balance the weight of your body across the pinky toe, big toe and heel of the feet. Press your inner ankles towards your outer ankles and roll your thigh bones back as you tuck your sitting bones underneath you. Feel the lift of the navel and heart as you relax your shoulders down and away from your earlobes. Stretch the crown of your head towards the sky and slightly bring your chin towards your heart as you relax your forehead, neck and jaw.
Breathe here in this place of where you stand. Notice sensation in your feet, legs, belly, lower back, lungs, heart center, shoulders, arms and hands. How do the bones of your face, neck and jaw feel? There are no right or wrong answers. It’s just what you feel right now. Each and every time you do this exercise you will feel different. It’s the miracle of standing on earth.
With affection,
Sharon Rudyk
Director, Yoga Matrika
A beautiful yoga studio community in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.






